I was among those people who judge others without knowing them. Who have never talked to them, just heard some random stuff and formed their opinion. I was, then I realized and dropped this habit and now I realized that I too am a victim of all this, after such a long time.
The context here is campus placements. Guys here believe that all pretty girls get placed because they are pretty and look down upon them. I also had similar thoughts some time ago. A good friend of mine, then only an acquaintance, was one of those pretty ladies. I also judged her and then circumstances made me talk to her and get to know her. I got to learn that she is one of the very few hard working (I mean like me) people I have met at this place. I realized how wrong I was to judge her in the first place. A finance placement is what she wanted and may be she is not as bright as other 'fin gods' but then she worked hard. She worked soo hard, sacrificing every fun activity in life and that's why she got what she wanted.
People who know me, know that I am hard-working, I enjoy what I choose to do otherwise I don't do it, I am very selfless ( after being at this place, I have realized this about me and I feel proud about it) and I never cheat. A few things happened 6 months back, without my fault whatsoever and everyone kind of assumed that I am the b****. I just got to know that people refused to work with me because of this. I have never wanted any appreciation for what I do but I just don't want any bad fame for something that was not my fault. Most people heard stories and made up some on their own. Now I have decided to be immune to all the shit people say and be like Dr. Brennan, my renewed inspiration. :)
Smartness can never replace hard-work!!
Be clear about yourself, intentions matter, people don't!!
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